How can we help improve the country's adoption system in which we live? The union is strength and now that this blog has thousands of readers around the world, maybe putting our bit we can make a difference. Adoption need not be an ordeal for children, adoptive parents and birth mothers, the system should be more efficient, as I saw on the website of USA adoptionnetwork.com is pictured above.
has long had this idea and wanted to write to them telling them that every day they arrive in my email dozens of letters from people who want to adopt a baby, and others who want to give her child up for adoption. I part the heart when I read their stories, they sometimes I have to delete because they contain personal data. Sometimes I accept the comments and are posted on the blog, but sometimes I can not publish it because they have information such as phone numbers and emails. As I had mentioned before, for safety reasons and to be as many bad things behind an illegal adoption and trafficking children, kidnapping, theft of babies in hospitals, theft of babies from the womb, etc., for this is that I can not publish personal data when a mother wants to give her child up for adoption, because what if it is not the real mother is a person who sells stolen children masquerading as his own. But it hurts me not to do anything about it, perhaps because most of these cases are real and the law in most Latin American countries will not accept a direct adoption.
In several countries the adoption of a small is almost impossible, I have for example that in Argentina and Spain can expect from approx. 9 years to have a child, is outrageous with so many children in need. And what should be legal, and simple priority ends up being a nightmare for parents who want to adopt. And it takes years for a child is legally eligible for adoption, may have a family from the earliest days of life.
Because of these flaws in the system of adoption, many couples rely mistakenly incorrect and illegal ways to have a child, to the despair of being parents and watching the years with great pain to no avail.
United States is that this system is more simple and logical, the birth mother can choose who will be parents who will raise your child and vice versa, can meet and even agree when the child grows up visits if they wish. So why the authorities of our countries do not prioritize this?, They do not think that children are first and give priority to these cases sleeping years in the judiciary, why not discuss these systems are more advanced to implement in our countries. The state would save lots of money and children could be with parents who love them from day one without going through cold homeless shelters.
from this article many people who are in government, lawyers, specialists in adoption, or individuals who can do something here and realize their ideas for improving the system for the sake of the children in the world are now in orphanages and shelters waiting for parents.
So far I've created the Adoption facebook since as many already know, social networks now can do miracles, we can spread this message among our acquaintances and find safe locations listed contacts can create Bills to improve the system. We can also meet with photos and contact us our real names, to know if really exist, to know that we have known or we have created a facebook just to fool others.
So I ask you a few to listen to us and they know they can always improve on everything, there is always something to do, enter your idea, and if you know how to help, please do and try to discuss. Do not forget to identify yourself and mention your country. I'll
placing the links here bring to my country, from websites or blogs that are doing bills or something to change and improve the adoption system :
- Argentina : ; http://www.cdpadres.blogspot.com/
A group of prospective adoptive parents and adoptive parents, by mutual agreement and with the right conferred by the Law of Popular Initiative, presented a Bill to accelerate the adoption. Now they need 400,000 signatures to be discussed in the Congress of Argentina.
placing the links here bring to my country, from websites or blogs that are doing bills or something to change and improve the adoption system :
- Argentina : ; http://www.cdpadres.blogspot.com/